Plus, there's the added contingent of single nerdy guys who think they're straight, but are actually gay, and have spent way too much time fruitlessly chasing women, instead of getting with the program. I've had some of these women actually say to me, "oh, I thought he was gay, so I didn't give him the time of day". If the guy really is gay, he is usually the last to know, and yet everyone else sees it. And if he's not, then he needs to figure out what kind of signals he's giving off to these women to make them think he's gay. Either way, there's something wrong here.
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Date: 2005-07-27 06:03 am (UTC)